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Hi all

I went to an informal job interview today with my old work.  They have been bending over backwards to help me come back and they have even put me on their roster for a couple of weeks' time.  That is fine and I was looking forward to working there two days a week.  All I prayed is that I passed the typing test so that I could get the higher rate of pay (75 wpm plus gets you through).  Well, I did but with a little help also.

Anyway, I had an interview with a rival company that is only 5 minutes down the road from where I live compared to about 80km from here.  They were offering one day per fortnight.  I told them it wasn't any good as it clashed with one of the days offered to me by the other company.  Lo and behold, I get home today and the rival company has offered me two days per week as they have just lost an employee (for personal reasons)!

Now I would rather work close to home but I know the other company well and I know I wouldn't fail or lose my job in any great hurry.  The rival company will be new to me and work slightly differently, so as much as I want to work locally I am a tad anxious about going to a new work place and telling my old work that I have changed my mind as I have had a better offer. 

Now, I could do with help in making sure that I have made the right decision but in breaking my decision gently to the parties involved - also, what the heck!?! How is it you get MORE than what you asked for - is it because it was in my heart and also spoken out loud to the interviewers of the company close to home? Is this a case of the angels proving that they answer prayers but do it with a BANG - like, you get more than you actually thought you possibly could?




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 Hope your mind is clear and you are able to make the right decision about your job. 



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I pray that you have the clarity and wisdom to make the best choice for both you and your family Kristen,
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Kristen I did a reading for you hon...what came out of that is this:

You are feeling useless, and that is something that you need to stamp on. You are a very worthy woman and, and the only thing that is stopping you hon is your fear of failure...which you must also release.

You have an incredible intellignece that is needed and will be appreciated, and that fear of uselessness and failure is what is stopping you form making the decision. You are actually afraid of this new beginning, incase it does not work out well...well you have to take the bull by the horns and step out girl!

The victory card came out reveresed, but it was in the head position...which means that you are thinking about being no good at the job because things work differently...

The most important thing to think about is what would bring out your passion? what would challenge you and turn you around?....lift you up and bring confidence to you?

Because at the moment confidence is your biggest issue, and is what is creating the problems of feeling useless, and unsure of yourself...

Get a piece of paper,  write on the paper the name of the company you have already worked for on the top half, and the new company on the bottom half

Tear the paper in half, fold it twice and put each half in its own envelope...seal the envelopes, and shuffle them around, leave them sitting on your kitchen bench for a couple fo hrs, then go back to them, shuffle them around again, leave them for another couple of hrs...this way you should forget which name is in which envelope...

Then when you have time, put both of the envelopes flat on the bench and put your hands just over the top of them...then switch envelopes using  the other hand on each envelope...

Now with either hand you will recieve a strong sense of which one you are drawn to...this is using your Empath sense....

Which ever one draws you the strongest, asking the question "which job should I take?" is the one that you need to open...if you open it and are disappointed, then the other one is the right choice...

Blessings hon,
Love ya!


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Hi Darryl and all

Thanks for your good wishes Lymbis and RVR!

Darryl - I wish I had read this sooner but never mind.  I did make a decision and I did realise that it is my fear of failure, the unknown, etc and that I do have to take the bull by the horns. 

It was really hard to tell my old work that I had changed my mind and that I would prefer to work close to home, etc but I figured this to be the best, most logical choice.  I have to take a risk in this instance and really there is no reason I should fail but you hit the nail on the head! Forever I have felt like I will always fail (not necessarily what happens) and that I am useless.  Well, it is stupid for me to think like that but I do. 

I think the decision was made correctly, even though I still doubt, but that is my lack of confidence.  The envelopes thing was sort of more to help in the decision making process as the answer lies in the top half of the reading (IMHO). 

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Kristen I feel for ya girl i have been a similar situations before so I will have you in my prayers that your guided to the right Job that will make you Happy!!!!!!  And Darryls Ideas souds Great let us know how it turns out!

Darryl Thats so cool about the envelopes Ill have to remember that one for the future believe me Im always indecisive its my libra side I think....lol  and the reading you did for Kristen sounds like mine would have been exactly the same...lol  Im not in that situation now but Kristen we must have alot in common ....Because everything Darryl said is how i feel about myself....lol   (((((HUGS))))))

Blessings!





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Looks like i posted the same time as you Kristen....lol   i just saw your post and Thats great you decided to take the job close to home I think thats great Decision!!!   Wishing you Gook Luck on your new adventure

Blessings



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kristen , good luck on you'r new job and many blessings being sent that you will succed and  do many great things in you'r  adventure.


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Hi Shanny and Bink

Thanks for your good wishes - much appreciated.

Shanny - did you have people that brought you down rather than "brought you up" i.e. instead of "raising" you, they were always on top of you to not "get a big head" or something like that? Now, I can't blame my folks for everything, but I know they didn't help my self-esteem (though they wouldn't understand that as they are a bit screwed up themselves - love 'em). 

Then, being sensitive and having rejection from others who see your "soft" side makes you an easy target.  After many years of this you end up feeling like nothing in a lot of ways even though you fight it as best you can.  You also get really angry about it, so you have anger to deal with on top of that.  Sucks really! Oh well, I guess there are many people much much worse off than me.

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Greets Kristen,

I am so glad you chose the new Job...that is the one I would haev counselled you to take...petrol is expensive and 80k is a long way and a lot of petrol to use...what is the point of working to sepnd more than half of it a week to get to and from work?...

Just take a deep breath and go for it hon...that is the best thing you could do....

Blessings hon


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Hi Shanny and Bink


Shanny - did you have people that brought you down rather than "brought you up" i.e. instead of "raising" you, they were always on top of you to not "get a big head" or something like that? Now, I can't blame my folks for everything, but I know they didn't help my self-esteem (though they wouldn't understand that as they are a bit screwed up themselves - love 'em). 




Yes Kristen Thats exactly what ive been through! Believe me my dad has put me through alot that i have had to over come not to mention others in my life...lol
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