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Hi.  I am going through a divorce right now and up until i started dating someone my not-soon-enough-to-be-ex husband has been an aggressive butthead.  He's threatening to call child services and have the kids taken away because he plans on telling them my boyfriend molested my daughter.  Totally not true.  He is the sweetest creature on this planet and he has a 4 year old son of his own.  My husband also emptied his 401K and bought a 45 caliber rifle, a hand gun, a 61 inch flat screen tv and all sorts of toys for his precious little truck.  He's also mad that i'm making him sell the house.  This is shaping up to get very ugly, very fast and i'm about to lose it. I've had enough of his super controlling ways, that's why i left.  He wants child support from me too and my (harsh words) lawyer agrees with him!  He can be my husbands lawyer now and i have to find a new, ruthless one.  In short, i need a few prayers of understanding and patience.  My husband could use some to make him pull his head out of his rear end and open his eyes to the fact that he is just using the kids as ammo towards me.  This whole situation sucks and its very childish.  I want it to be over with fast but its looking like a long haul kind of thing.  I could use a good hug too.  Thanks so much for everyone on this forum. 



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I am sorry that you are going through this Lymbis and I totally feel for you at this time.  I left an abusive man that became much more so when I left and used to call me all kinds of names outside the 3rd story apartment I got when I left.  He demanded I pay for 1/2 of the mortgage while we settled things and he paid me nothing for child support.  My daughter was very ill at the time and he ended up with her (long story) and then of course there had to be arrangements for child support!  I paid him $450/month for about 7 years.  I was forced to leave the area we lived to get away from his controlling ways.  I missed my daughter so terribly but I needed time to heal from years of rape by him.  You *can* make it through this Sister...I did and I am actually even able to tolerate speaking with him without feeling fear now. 

I pray that the angels bring you the strength to keep reminding yourself that he holds no power over you, and that they will watch over you emotionally and physically during this hard time.  I am on every day usually...please don't hesitate to message me if you ever need to just chat.
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That pretty much sums it up.  Thanks Red.  Good to know that things finally worked out for you.  I'm trying to stay positive and keep my wicked sense of humor.  I too may have to move away, but not too far. 



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Working on it for you Lymbis, hope I can help


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Oh Wow...another ruthless butthead!! Geez...I know how that is.

What ever you do..don't back down and stand your ground. He's just jealous that you finally met someone nice and he's blowing a fuse over it.

Do you know what I tell them...$hit happens

I went through a terrible divorce with my first/ex to the point he did take the kids from me and absically said he would shoot me if I tried to get them back. I believed he would. So I let them go...one of the hardest decisions I have ever made...many regrets...but I took the blow.

I could write a book just based on divorces...lol been married too many times...but I walked out on them..they didn't walk out on me.

Find the toughest attorney you can find...one that deals with nothing but divorce cases...don't find one that handles other cases...just divorce.
If you can help it...don't get a male attorney because they are not too soft hearted on women. Get a female attorney...they go for blood! lol

Geez...listen to me...telling it straight out like it is....lol
I hold no bounds...I go for it when I want to say something....which I never use to be like that...I was once that soft hearted sweet loving girl who took the punches. Now...after years of heartache and torment...now I throw the punches! Guys flat up don't mess with me anymore...lol

Good luck girl...I know you can hang in there and do this...don't give up or give in...stand strong. You have my support...and if you need any advice...ask me..I studied family and criminal law....4 years worth.

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lymbis , sorry to hear you'r dealing with this mess, but keep you'r head up high and always wear a smile !!, you are strong and will get through this . many blessings comming you'r way and i'll keep you in my thoughts and prayers too.
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Lymbis
So sorry your going through this!!  You have all my prayers and Im sending you Postive energy and lots of love! 
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Hi Lymbis

Sorry to hear that you are having a messy divorce after a messy marriage! Glad to hear your new man is much better - there is a silver lining after all!

Much love to you and (((((((((((BIG HUGS))))))))))) plus I pray that your soon to be ex husband realises that he is being stupid and unreasonable and that you get a really tough female lawyer, one that isn't greedy for the $$ either and I pray that things go your way!!

We are all rooting for you Lymbis!!




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Ecclesiastes 4: 12 And if a man prevail against him that is alone, two shall withstand him; and a threefold cord is not quickly broken".
I have no insightful- words of wisdom or advice for you - But I am sending much love, light, prayers & support to you & your family!


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Lymbis...

So sorry to hear that you are having to deal with this man. My thoughts and prayers are with you  through this trying time.
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Lymbis, My friend many many hugs to you, We are all praying for you, and keeping you in our thoughts, I'm sending positive healing thoughts your way!!!!!!! Keep your chin up, And we will be here for you HUGS HUGS my friend....................... Blessings to you


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Lymbis... Sorry your soon to be ex is giving you such a hard time... I know that all this bs is very hard for you to deal with. It's also hard on the kids. My children and I went through a divorce back in 92. This was a very tough time for us, but we got through it... and so will you and your children... Shame on your hubby for putting you and your children through all of this.Many prayers, blessings and hugs!!!!! ((((((((hugs)))))))) wisperer



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Hi Lymbis,

My prayers are with you. I Sent you an IM


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Hey Lymbis.....I apologize for not responding to your request before now.  I have gotten on for a few minutes at a time but, just haven't felt like doing more than looking....just taking it a day at a time.

I'm sorry you're having to go through all this.....especially with the kids having to be involved.  Anyway, I'll certainly remember you in my prayers.  Stay strong and true to yourself always.  Many blessings for a happy and bright future.

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Hi lymbis,  I am so sorry to hear what you are going through, Please listen to darryl and get the police involve. Sounds like you might need pretection. My thoughts and prayers are with you sending you a big bearhug

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